I can totally feel you as I been though it myself. However, I am a little luckier as my husband choose my kids and myself over his parents to go marriage counselling with me. Things do move smoothly for us now although there is still time we fight. Do you still love him? Apart not doing housework, do you think he still care for the kids? Are you willing to let the kids grow up in a family without a Father figure? If any of the answers are positive, I suggest to look for third party to help to improve the communication.
I was all ready to divorce when we meet the marriage Counsellor but change my mind after listening to what he shared. A breakdown in a marriage is an issue between the two. Take some time to talk about it if you still think this marriage is worth fighting for.
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