if you were in my shoes...

first time mom and married for one year. living separately because of "work" reasons ni hubby, tho he's not giving money monthly. he only gives "pag meron". from pregnancy to birth and up until now, i'm almost always on my own. and when he's home he gets mad spontaneously about anything and everything. he doesn't hurt me.physically just this one time, 3 days after i gave birth, and he never was sorry about it. he finds the simplest things and turbs it into a fight that he makes me feel that i'm the one to blame. if you were in my shoes, would you keep fighting to stay together for your daughter's sake, or it's tine to accept the fact that the marriage isn't working out?

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If i were you sis, i would reflect on my own. If you do stay together, would it be worth it? Yes, you may have a complete family but constantly fighting with a daughter around isnt healthy. Yes, you might now have a complete family together if you give up, but you would raise tour daughter in a less toxic and hostile household. Think to yourself, can me and my husband really still fix our relationship?

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If you feel that your relationship with your husband will have a more negative impact on you and your child, better to leave the relationship. Sometimes sticking it out for the sake of the child may cause even more harm as the child is exposed to fighting andnegativity.

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Home Just Mums first time mom married year living separately because work reasons ni hubby tho not giving money monthly only gives pag meron from pregnancy birth until now im almost always own when home gets mad spontaneously about anything everything doesnt hurt physically time 3 days after i gave birth never was sorry about finds simplest things turbs into fight that makes feel that im blame if were in shoes keep fighting stay together your daught