feeling sad. my hubs has this tendency to show a black face,show attitude, talk rudely (despite how nice i talk to him) when he's tired. EVERY SINGLE TIME. I've talked to him abt this before and he will jus say that "dun see my face then"; "then dont talk to me" etc. just now when i was feeding my toddler dinner he looked tired so i told me to go to the room to take a nap but he said he's ok. he was still fine then. after tt he went off to do some household chores and he was tired after that. i appreciate him for doing the work but i feel very upset whenever he vent his tiredness by being grouchy pissed rude in responding etc after that. i then told him, i already told u to rest jus now u didnt want. i appreciate that u do the household chores but now that u are tired why vent on me again?he just replied "shhh!" loudly telling me to shutup. im tired too but when i am tired i dont show it cus i know how it feels. furthermore im in my third trimester gg thru nausea feeling tired etc. when he's in a good mood he is good. but he has mood swings and it gets bad. sigh

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Maybe he's just having some jitters about having a new member in the family? Stress up with it? Thou we usually understand that mummy are the one that could have pre and post preg depression but I think some daddies who are concerned might get it too. So maybe try to talk to him, communicate and perhaps bring him for some new parenting workshop or course. Just keep on trying! Don't give up~

usually if we ladies pregnant theres a part where we can see each other face..hehe i ever been there..because i like to watch chinese movies and everytime i watch it he will change channel thats when i suddenly blow up..then theres a part when he don want to talk to me he says he himself dont know why..to be honest thats is part of the pregnancy cycle for both husband and wife.

Since you know that he's tired , then give and take a bit here and there . I know it's easy to say, but difficult to do . But as a married couple this is pretty normal, don't let it affect you too much. Because he probably didn't meant what he says . Let him have his time , probably 1 hour or so to chill after a long day at work.