Did you ever have sex outside marriage? I feel in women's case, it is such a big deal and a sure shot marriage breaker, but if a man does that there is always scope of things getting fine with time.

i wouldn't want to go down the road of comparison of whether or not it is right for the man or woman to have sex outside of marriage. i feel it is not right for any partner to have sex outside marriage, it is cheating and there is no two ways about it. yes, indian society has a way of forgiving the man easily and punishing the woman for doing the same, but it is not right in either case.