Feeling down

You need to tell your nanny straight that you are the boss and she needs to follow your instructions, including teaching you basic baby care. If she is from an agency, I would feedback to them too

It's Okay. What u need to do now is rest, eat, sleep. When nanny left, automatically you will be able to take care your baby, it's nature. Not to worry so much now.

U can join their mother support group too. Don't keep emotions inside. Get help or emotional support from friend or support group

How have you been coping? I also met a nanny who’s rather negative. Keep saying I am not like other moms who managed to learn

Why don't practice it together with your husband when he is at home. You might feel better that way.

My wife engage their lactation consultant. Expensive but it help my wife a lot

If you dont mind i can come over to teach you the basic.

U can engage midwife services. Google mother and child sg

Don’t let your nanny’s words affect you!!