Staying with in laws

Im staying w them & it sucks totally. Bunch of selfish people . I can't even call my own parents just because my husband's brother recorded whatever I said and sent to his parents and the family group chat, and I cant even rant on my own spam account because my husband's sister screenshot and showed to their parents. His mother go on mentioning if my husband and i were to have new hse, it's theirs while their current old house is ours ( absurd af ) , his father go on mentioning that next year can get more money or add any income amount coz will have alot of ppl in the hse ( assuming as if my baby and i will help liddat. ) going crazy soon.

I stay with my pil. In the beginning of CB really quite stressful as need to handle my baby and meet the work timeline as well, especially my pil are too gan jiong about my daughter and they will keep reminding me to feed my daughter, keep an eye on my daughter that make me got the feeling that I am not fit as a mother 😣 However, I can handle this slightly better by changing my mindset, do appreciate them as they try their best to take care of my bb when I was busy.

If u have a helper at home whose role is mainly looking after ur baby but ur mil keep stepping in to do things her way. And when she's got a hit out of a few misses, she self praises non stop and fil oso got to praise her. Will u feel annoyed?

I am staying at my in laws during this CB and thankfully while my husband is working shift, my MIL helps a bit with my baby while I get to shower, toilet break or pray. But its temporary while we wait for our house.

I stayed with my in laws for a decade :) gg to do my confinement at their place too. It's not too bad but of course cant be compared to your own house

I stay with my parents and I can't even tahan them lol

🙈🙉🙊 And you will survive

Hang in there!