Why will your wife Don like you to kiss or hug her anymore?

Anyone facing same issue?

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There are so many reasons why this could happen. Perhaps try thinking about things from your wife's perspective? Is she working or stay-at-home? Do you have kids? What does she do on a daily basis (which you may not even know about if you're away at work all day)? Usually for women who became mothers, their focus has shifted to the children - whether they're a stay-at-home or working mum, it is really tiring either way. By the end of the day, their mind might still be buzzing with a ton of things they have to do so sometimes they don't really want any affection because they're too tired or too busy planning the next day in their mind. In any case, your best bet is to sit down with your wife and just talk to her calmly and find out what's happening. If she's being too tired with the kids/housework, help give her some time out by booking massages for her or just helping out with some tasks at home. If she's stressed over something, be there to help talk things out with her and offer help in whatever way you can. Please don't ever explode in front of her if she rejects your affection, but talk things out calmly after :)

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In such cases, I think it always helps to sit down and talk to your partner. Sometimes, it may be something that is holding the other person back. May be some trouble, something at work or some tension. When you talk it out with your partner, it relaxes him/her and makes it easy and helpful for both :)

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I think it’s important for you to communicate this with your wife. Perhaps she has forgotten, or perhaps she herself is going through a tough time and this is one of the side effects. Do speak to her about this. Open communication is the best.

She might be going through something and feels uncomfortable. Best to speak to her and try to understand what's going on and what's thinking so you can get better clarity on the situation.

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Is she tired and burnt out? Also have you connected with her emotionally recently? And asked her how she’s feeling? Whether she’s tired.. whether she needs anything..

it could be because of her moods. It those days where we might need our alone time

Me as a wife, i couldnt explain why i dislike kisses. But i still like hugs.

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Nope , small life let’s njoy it

I still enjoy them

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Maybe hormonal sensitivity?