Anyone of you allow your 2 months to sleep with you on the same bed or baby cot??

I did tht till my son's were a year old. it helped them overcome emotional insecurity thts common in very young kids. pls remember that now you and your husband have become parents. it's a different role than that of a couple. a lot of adjustment needs to be accommodated by both of you. neither one of u can afford to get irritated or feel insecure with the new arrival. this baby can only thrive if it sees love coming from both ends and that both of u love each other. don't think that babies can't sense when they r not needed...they r masters at sensing our fears insecurity etc. so by making your baby sleep with u is not wrong. don't try to follow the western trend of putting baby in their own room. it's not that they know all about best parenting and we don't. each culture and family and personality is different. what works for them need not work for us. hence agree between u and ur husband about making baby sleep initially with u and gradually wear it out by putting him in his own cot. sometimes a baby feels like he's jailed in that cot. imagine yourself in that age and height. wouldn't u also feel the same. and it's a natural tendency for humans to feel independent. so even though ur baby is just 2 months old, he has a personality of its own. treat him likewise. maybe the romance time u need with ur husband can be discussed and executed accordingly so tht no one feels ignored and left out
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