5th pregnancy

Question

Its my 5th pregnancy and I feel overwhelmed. My 4th child just turned 3yo. My eldest is 13yo, my 2nd is almost 8yo and the 3rd is 5yo. Managing a teenager, 2 school kid and a toddler is really challenging. Knowing Im pregnant again makes me feel anxious.1. What if my body cant handle it anymore? Im 36. 2. What if the baby will no longer be healthy? 3. What would my eldest feel abt having another sibling? My parents and in laws too? 4. Should I blame my husband? Or is it my fault that I dont really reject him anytime? 5. Until what age should we keep working to sustain our families needs? Please, dont judge. I cant celebrate my pregnancy because I feel ashamed. Help me cope and be more positive. Thanks, mommas!

Tere SC · Accepted Answer

Your feelings po are valid are understandable. I'm not sure if there's any comforting words I can give but this I can say: The mere fact that you're having all those concerns and worries, already tells me that you're a very good mother ☺️ Please take care of yourself and stay healthy... "The days are long but the years are short"... just take it one day at a time. God bless *hugs*🫂

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Anonymous · Answer

Lahat ng nararamdaman mo valid di mo lang maiwasan na maging anxious sa paligid mo kase madami kang chikiting. Wag mo din sisihin ang sarili mo or husband mo dahil dyan kasi alam niyo naman kung anong mangyayari once na may nangyari sa inyo. Regarding naman sa eldest mo kausapin mo siya ng maayos ipaintindi mo na magkakaroon siya ulit ng kapatid try mong i-involve yung eldest mo sa activities ng mga nakakabata niyang kapatid para di niya mafeel na left out siya. Saka malayo naman ang mga age gap ng anak mo e. Saka please don't be ashamed kase buntis ka anong magagawa mo if buntisin ka talaga saka may husband ka naman? Yung iba nga ilang taon na nag try pero wala pa din. Please keep in mind na ang baby or pregnancy ay isang mahalagang blessing na dapat nating ipagpasalamat kase yung iba hindi naranasan yung mga naranasan mo. Be healthy mommy! Kaya mo yan! Cheer up po ❤️

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