My 2 weeks baby jus got discharged from hospital. My hub just shouted at the baby to shut up when he's crying hysterically just now. I feel so exhausted, depressed and heartbroken. I really dislike his this behaviour. How to change him. I tried talking to him, he seems to still lose his cool when he cannot tolerate the high pitch crying.

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First time father would need some practicing, shouting at the baby is not one of them, how about suggesting other ways to handle it and for him to commit?

He's probably feeling stress as well. Ask him to find ways to handle his feelings..Maybe walk away, or go wash his face or drink water (to cool down)

Super Mum

Are there anyone else to help you? Not easy to take care of newborn.. Think he is under too much stress as well.. You need to seek help asap

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I think is better to talk to your husband. Shouting to baby doesn’t help at all. Ask him to carry the baby and walk around instead.

Super Mum

As a father , maybe just let your hub cool down before taking care of baby

Get helps, is normal for 1st time father. As your life has change

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Get someone like mil or nanny to help out for timebeing

Oh my u should talk to ur husband

First time father?