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Infant care OR hire a helper?

Hello parents, In one month’s time, my wife will be ending her maternity and we are considering between sending our baby to infant care and hiring a helper. My parents are aggressively wanting us to hire a helper but my wife and myself are poised to using infant care instead. We have weighed the pros and cons between both options and felt that the latter is best for our baby’s development. Reason for not wanting a helper 1. Having another person at home will introduce a different set of problems 2. I can’t have my helper at home with my 3 months old son without supervision 3. Maid will usually take the easiest way to stop the baby from crying without long term consideration for the child’s well being 4. Baby might grow accustomed to helper’s indulgence and affect the bond between child and parents Cons of sending a child in infant care 1. Time and schedule will become rigid 2. Child can fall sick easily due to contagion I would like to hear more from any parents here whom were once in my position. What were your considerations, observations and ultimately what did you choose and why? Thanks once again.

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Infant care, for sure. You can always get a part timer to help with the house chores, but infant care would help with socialising and teach your child professionally vs what your helper could do.

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Flat Surrender to HDB

My 5 room flat is cost $580000. Havent met MOP. Still waiting for my final judgement letter. Now my flat is only 3 years. May i know how much loss will there be incurred. Will there be any cash pay out?? Cpf pay out? Appeciate your input please. Thank you.

did you get advice from hdb?

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Child First Aid

Hi Daddies! Equip yourselves with the knowledge of CHILD FIRST AID and tackle parenthood with a new skill! Ease your mind by enrolling the caregivers in your home to CHILD FIRST AID!

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thks for sharing

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any mummy or daddy gone through divorce?? bought flat and hvnt meet the MOP? how much cash u will get if u surrender to HDB. i am going through a divorce now. my Flat is only coming 3 years. any one can advice me how much i get. i bought the flat for $475000. Please help. Thank you mummy and daddy.

You should read this: https://www.asianmoneyguide.com/divorce-hdb

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Fox spirit Male Bastards

During the old days, women who destroy marriages are label fox spirit bitches, so what happened if they happened to be man i name them bastards. In our currently society as social friends are more then true friends and more convenient to reach out in forum and facebook. There 2 kinds of these bastards. Married and is looking for married women to have no string attach relationship 2nd type Man who is divorced or who either has some mental issue or taking advantage of their so call experience of been a victim of their divorce are going after women who has marriage issue or on going to divorce. You bastards who can't even save your own marriage now want to help others who has marriage issue. Dun joke you bastard just wana lay our spouse to satisfied your desire. When you guys think you can get away with all these acts. Think again as God is watching. So to all guys who are doing all these evil acts , think harder when been confront by the husband at your workplace or home is not going to be nice.

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Sex during pregnancy

Do the father have sex during the wife pregnancy?

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Yes absolutely, Do consult your gynae

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Blogging For Dads

There's plenty of article by moms to support moms but there's not much on dads. So, I decided to begin one and hopefully, some dads might find it useful. Let me know if you think it might help and if there's other topics you think I should talk about. https://abdillahzamzuri.wordpress.com/2018/08/22/the-first-3-months-of-fatherhood-part-1-expressing-milk/

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Recaro Easylife Safety 1st Nomi stroller Nuna PEPP Which of the above would be better for overseas traveling with 21mo toddler? Or any other better and ideal suggestions? I need stroller that can recline for LO to slp.

Promo terbesar expert care sudah dimulai, diskon hingga Rp.100.000 sedang berlangsung di shopee, ada juga voucher diskon 100% alias gratis bagi bunda yang beruntung. Buruan cek di https://shope.ee/9UfEMMqqTg (id-36072)

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I'm a stay at home Mom (SAHM). Wanna ask all husbands here .. what is your expectations of your Wife if she is a SAHM n both of u have two kids. Do u expect her to take on all housework , cook all meals ? When u come home from work that she ought to continue to do all the work including settling the kids to bed , supervise older child of his work .. ? Then when u wanna be intimate with her n she was still busy settling housework that u grumble u have the lowest priority in her heart ? I wanna hear from the point of view of husbands

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How do you teach your son about treating women the proper way

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like father like son indeed. you are your son's best mentor.

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