Birthclub: May 2024

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Brand of Thermometer

Hello mommies! What brand(s) of thermometer do you all use? Which one do you recommend? I am looking at Braun but not sure if I should be getting this expensive thermometer as it costs almost $100!

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can try getting cheaper versions online

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I am wondering if I can drink instant coffee while breastfeeding? My LO is 15 days old...

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moderation is key 💕

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Has anyone gotten hospitalization leave from hospital before EDD? How long before EDD were u given?

#adviceplease #newmom

My gynae gave me 25 days

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No confinement nanny

Does anyone here ever and/or choose to manage on their own with nb without hiring a confinement nanny? Is it tough or manageable?

Tbh, it is really tough.. However, it is manageable coz my partner is very supportive and efficient. I ordered confinement food and book a masseuse separately. Majority of the time, my partner helped me with the baby while I rest and recuperate

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Feeling so overwhelmed and drained

It took me a lot of courage to talk about separation. I think I have had enough. I am doing my confinement but I ain't resting. Everyone incl my spouse told me to rest, to minimise walking but he isn't helping much, beside feeding LO. I wash bottles until I am sick of it. When I told him if I don't do it, nobody will. He assured me he will, but man I was so wrong. He didn't change the diaper for 6hrs. He didn't wake up when LO was crying so loud for several minutes (yes he is a deep sleeper). He didn't wash the bottles till there was once there was insufficient clean teat and bottle to be used. Whenever he help out with changing diaper, he is the one sitting down while I got to stand and bend until my back ache. He is on paternity leave for 2 weeks, but aren't helping much. He can watch Netflix while feeding LO. Am I being too anal about the things he had done, or I was right to be upset about? Sometimes I look at my girl, I asked myself why on earth I gave birth to her.

You have all the rights to be upset, I would too. Because giving birth is not just about me, you had a part in this too but why did I end up doing everything alone while you get to enjoy? Husband aside, how about laying LO on the bed so you don’t have to bend too much? Or get a diaper changing station. Shower wise, get a bath stand to ease the pressure on your back. Positive side, at least when he ends his PL, you’ll be able to handle everything yourself (thats the case for myself since I had no help, but I managed to get used to it before confinement ends).

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Breastmilk vs Formula milk

My LO can sleep for 3hrs-4hrs per 90ml of FM. However I notice LO tends to cry for milk every 2hrs if i feed him 50ml of BM and 40ml of FM... and doesn't feel full after feeding. Is there any ratio to bm:fm? Am I feeding him correctly?

no fixed ratio. i think you are doing okay on the top up of FM; technically BM digests alot quicker which is why they get hungry fast.

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NUH delivery package 2024

Hello does anybody has the NUH delivery package for 2024

What would you like to know? I am delivering there so I could give you some info if you need :)

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Circumcisions clinic

Hi mummies! Any clinic to recommend for baby boy circumcisions? I wanted to do it before the baby turned 1 month old. Sidek clinic earliest is 4 July. By then the baby will be almost 3 months.

Hi there! I totally understand your concern about wanting to have your baby boy circumcised before he turns 1 month old. It's great that you're looking into this early on. If Sidek clinic's earliest available date is almost 3 months away, you might want to consider checking out other clinics that offer earlier appointments. You can try calling around to different clinics in your area to see if they have any availability sooner than that. Some clinics might have cancellations or unexpected openings that could work in your favor. Another option is to speak with your pediatrician or family doctor for recommendations on reputable clinics that perform circumcisions for infants. They may have connections or be able to refer you to a clinic that can accommodate your timeline. It's important to ensure that the clinic you choose follows proper sterilization protocols and employs experienced medical professionals to carry out the procedure safely. Don't hesitate to ask questions about their practices and qualifications to ease any concerns you may have. I hope you find a suitable clinic for your little one soon. Best of luck with everything! https://invl.io/cll6she

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Baby hungry after breastfeeding

Hi mummies! I’ve been trying to let my baby (26 days old) latch on me. He will suckle on/off and doze off to sleep then wakes up to suckle after a few seconds. He will latch for 30-45 mins on one side before pushing me away and dozing off to sleep. However, he wakes up crying for more milk after 15 mins and I am also able to pump out milk on the same side after that (slightly lesser than usual - if I’m just pumping without latching beforehand). Why is my baby not satisfied after the breastfeeding all the time?

Hi there! It sounds like you're going through a challenging time with your little one. First of all, congratulations on your new baby! It's not uncommon for newborns to want to nurse frequently, especially during growth spurts. Your baby's behavior of latching, suckling, and then falling asleep before waking up to nurse again is quite normal. Babies have small stomachs and breast milk is easily digested, so they need to feed often. One possible reason your baby may not be satisfied after breastfeeding is that he might not be getting enough hindmilk, which is the rich, creamy milk that comes after the foremilk. This can happen if your baby only feeds for a short time on each side. To ensure your baby gets enough hindmilk, try to encourage him to nurse for longer periods on each breast, allowing him to fully empty one breast before offering the other. Another possibility is that your baby is going through a growth spurt and simply needs more milk than usual. During these times, babies may nurse more frequently to increase your milk supply to meet their growing needs. It's important to respond to your baby's cues and nurse on demand to ensure he's getting enough milk. It's great that you're able to pump out milk after your baby nurses, but keep in mind that the amount you pump may not always reflect the amount of milk your baby is getting while nursing. Babies are much more effective at removing milk from the breast than a pump, so don't worry too much if you're pumping slightly less than usual after a feeding session. Lastly, make sure to check your baby's latch to ensure he's effectively transferring milk. A poor latch can result in inefficient milk transfer, leading to your baby feeling hungry even after nursing. Remember, every baby is different, and it's okay to seek support from a lactation consultant or a healthcare professional if you're feeling unsure. Hang in there, mama, you're doing a great job! https://invl.io/cll6she

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Anyone had Dr Wong Ker Yi from KKH as your gynae? Any comments?

Reviews on kkh gynae

Yes, I have had experience with Dr. Wong Ker Yi from KKH as my gynae, and I'd be happy to share my thoughts. Dr. Wong Ker Yi is a highly experienced and knowledgeable gynae at KKH. He has a warm and friendly approach, which can help put any expectant mother at ease. He listens to your concerns and provides clear explanations, making sure you feel comfortable throughout your pregnancy journey. One thing that stood out to me about Dr. Wong Ker Yi is his dedication to ensuring the health and well-being of both the mother and the baby. He is thorough in his examinations and proactive in addressing any issues that may arise. His expertise and professionalism are truly commendable. In terms of the overall experience at KKH, I found the facilities to be excellent, and the staff to be attentive and caring. The maternity services provided at KKH are top-notch, offering comprehensive support for pregnant women and new mothers. If you are considering Dr. Wong Ker Yi as your gynae at KKH, I would highly recommend him based on my personal experience. I believe you will be in good hands under his care. Wishing you a smooth and healthy pregnancy journey! https://invl.io/cll6she

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