Would you rather go for a short getaway to neighboring countries (with a toddler along) over the weekend or go for a romantic dinner night out for 2 to celebrate your wedding anniversary? I am a ftwm so weekends are very precious to me

Wow, tough choice :p To me, since it's your wedding anniversary, you should have a romantic + quiet time with hubby. Unless it's your birthday or his, then you may want to go for a short getaway with your todd. But if you think you'll miss your todd, then you should just go for the getaway and enjoy the precious time together! :D