Would you rather go for a short getaway to neighboring countries (with a toddler along) over the weekend or go for a romantic dinner night out for 2 to celebrate your wedding anniversary? I am a ftwm so weekends are very precious to me

I would get someone to look after my little one for the weekend and celebrate the occasion. My logic is simple. There are 52 weekends in a year, surely me and hubby deserve at least one weekend to ourselves. This is not neglecting the little one, but giving the priority to the one who made it possible.