Why do wives have to ask permission from her husband to go out with friends but the husband only informs her that he is going out with friends?

may i ask you why you allow this to happen in this age and setting? i'm sorry to sound rude, but unless you take control of certain things, no one else can bring in the change. in my family, both me and hubby go out separately with our friends. we only check with each other to make sure our dates are not clashing. we don't ask or tell each other about where we are going or with who. we lead a happy life at home and a happy social life in a 'me' space as well. thanks to this, both our kids feel this is quite normal and already understand the importance of giving each other 'space.' make your plans, tell your hubby about it and go out and enjoy. if he has a problem, ask him why he should behave any differently.

This is our conditioning. We have grown up seeing our mothers doing it, and mothers teaching their daughters to do the same. And if wives or daughter in-laws do the same was their husbands....just inform...then they are considered to be mannerless, devoid of sanskaars/values. But times are changing, men's thought process is changing. Like, if I have to go on a holiday, i inform my husband and he listens and if there's nothing as a unit that I should be a part of, I go. And same is with him. We have equality at home, at least.

As others have mentioned, this is because of our upbringing where the husband or father are considered to be the head of the family and to seek their permission is felt necessary! Its high time that we change this attitude. Husbands also feel that the wife should seek permission as he has also been conditioned to feel superior. Like the husband you also inform him, don't seek permission!

I would say the patriarchal society of ours is to be blamed for this. Its the attitude that girls are answerable to everyone. I personally don't seek permission from my husband, only inform him. He also does the same. I will bring up my daughter like this as well!

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