Husband still watches porn

What do you do after you found out your husband still watches porn even after your baby is out? This is the 2nd time I caught my husband’s Safari history flooded with websites of pornography. It made me sick to the stomach. I cried so hard in the toilet and left his phone unlocked with the porn website on. Now before you judge, just a little info that we are Muslims. And watching porn is as sinful as eating pork. I would have no problem at all if we were non-Muslims. #advicepls #pleasehelp

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Perhaps ur hubby needs more intimate time with you. Men are wired differently frm women. Of course it's so hard with baby ard, and esp if ure breastfeeding, ur libido may be at all time low but maybe u may want to try be more affectionate twds him? Sneak in some intimate moments with him when baby is asleep or if u have another caregiver, can ask her to look aft baby for a few hrs? I dont hve tt prob with my hubby but sad to say my mom had tt prob with my own dad when we were small. We're Muslims too by the way and she told me she had a really hard time coming to terms with it at first when she found r rated magazines (30 yrs ago 😅). She confronted my dad and he got angry at first but it got better when she tried to be more affectionate twds him. It's hard to take care of both hubby and kids but it'll work out somehow. So my mom advised me to always try to give some couple time to my husband, even tho my hubby is way more understanding than my dad. My mom let me leave baby with her sometimes aft baby is aslp at night and we'll either go out for dates or go bck our hse for couple time. My hub and I are open with each other and he did tell me tt he felt a lil lonely esp aft birth cz I was always preoccupied with baby but he knew it's unavoidable so he just distracts himself with other things like playing games and keeping track of his stocks. I'm not sure if it's ok to speak to ur husband directly abt it as he may be defensive but wld be gd if u can. Let him know how u feel and ask him how u can help him to overcome it.

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7mo ago

Hais i have the same issue as u... Have been telling him alot times dont seems to improve...

Maybe after breaking fast, you can tease him a little, do some oral then have sex. Build up the mood first :) I think he misses it but he just dont know how to ask for it. Explore and be adventurous so it will be fun and exciting :)