mad at your spouse

I feel that I have built up resentment to him due to his wastefulness and lack of financial responsibility. Before having a child, we didn't keep a joint account so my only concern was my own spending. I kept on asking him if we're not overspending, and he would assure me that we're not. Then recently, he used up almost all his 13th month pay shopping for his stuff! So I decided to keep all of the money, then I also allocated budget, made a projection of expenses, and did a lot of scolding. I trusted him to be financially responsible but he just disappointed me. Now, it really doesn't take much for me to get angry. Even when I ask him to buy a single thing, he would go home with multiple things. It's driving me nuts!