what does the employer mean when just before you pop, she says if you do not want to come back to work, its ok too. and when you returned after your maternity leave, she says nothing gets done when you are not around (and the fact that i delegated my work nicely before i pop).
That is a very hurtful and selfless statement. If i were you, i would leave the job. Either way, seems that she is either telling me to leave on my own or she would eventually find another reason to terminate me. Best to start planning ahead!
Have you try asking the people around you at work to see how things was like when you are on maternity leave?
Maybe she is trying to provoke you to see if you would leave on your own accord. I would say just ignore
No dear you are not being sensitive. Don't care and give a hoot to someone like that.
thanks babe
I would assume that she is telling me that I'm not needed in a polite manner.
thats what i thought so too. thought i was being sensitive. but to say that to a mother who is going to pop i think is not very needed and tactful. to think she is a principal of a secondary school.
