What are the things your parents did that you will never do to your kids or future kids?

I was raised in the Philippines.When my mom gets mad,she hits me a couple of times with anything (broomstick/duster stick/hanger and all of the above)and will never sit down and explain why she had to discipline me.When my son gets antsy...I give him a time out (stand facing the wall in the corner)I let him cry and when he calms down I sit beside him and explain why I had to call him out for his wrongdoing...kiss and hug after the conversation and he’s like a brand new kid again.So far this method is working for my little dude.Also my Mom leave us with House helpers, as I grow up I never have a close bond with my mother.She’s a stay at home Mom but loves to be with her circle of friends all the time.Im the total opposite of her,Im a SAHM but prefer to be a hands on Mom to my son since day 1 and I prioritize my husband and son over my “Amigas”.