What are the things your parents did that you will never do to your kids or future kids?

My parents never did quite trusted me. I was pretty active in my school's volleyball team and we had intensive trainings 3 times a week in a JC. Trainings usually start at about 3pm and ends at 830pm. We'd shower, have dinner then go home. So by the time I'm home, it's maybe 11pm or so. My dad used to accuse me of going clubbing (lol), using volleyball as an excuse even after I said you could always picked me up (he said I can always "pretend" to be at trainings and come from somewhere else) and it got so bad until one day I really went all rebellious. My parents are also divorced and they used to badmouthed each other. Now that I am too going through a divorce, I wouldn't do the same but rather let him find out himself.