Is it better to stay in this marriage?

We've been like this for at least a year now. Feeling ko ang incompetent ko, because my wife purposely decides on everything herself without consulting me. However, diba pag kasal dapat teamwork kayo? Yet ganon siya. We only talk if about sa children namin. I miss how my wife were before we had kids, not gonna lie, there are time that I'd have thoughts about leaving the marriage. But yung mga anak namin lang talaga namin yung iniisip ko, heck, feeling ko my wife is just thinking about the same thing. The sole reason why she's still around.

Anonymous

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in marriage transparency and respect is important.. sabi nga sa bible when you get married you'll be one flesh na. talk to your wife and ask her whats bothering you.. tell her the things that she do that makes you feel uncomfortable and upset, analize everything.. see yourself also baka may nagagawa ka din na makes her uncomfortable or baka may pinagdadaanan sya na di nya ma open sayo.. Alalahanin kung ano ang punot dulo at kung kelan nag umpisa ang pagbaabago sa relasyon nyo.. consider na maayos relasyon nyo instead thinking leaving the marriage.. wala naman ibang mas nakaka kilala sa asawa mo kun hindi ikaw lang :) hows your sex life? do you cuddle frequently? may oras ba kayo sa isat isa? what dont you ask her for a date or a vacation na kayong dalawa lang.. wag nyo na patagalin yung ganyang treatment nyo sa isat isa. mas lalo lang lalalim.. at sama ng loob maiipon yan.. your the haligi ng tahanan do the first move. goodluck.

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Anonymous

3y ago

hopefully and prayerfully na okay na kayo ng wife mo sir🙂. I see myself sa wife mo, kase sa personality ko dn and times occurred nagconsult ako sa partner ko end up ako pa dn magfinal decision. And most of the time andun yung thought na "you should know" sa partner ko..di ko kelangan magexplain pa dapat alam nya na ganon. Pero pag magusap kami I realized dn naman mali ko, and sya ganon din naman. never ending comms lang tlaga, open up and let yourself feel vulnerable, be each other's comfort.

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