TTC depression(?)

TTC can be really taxing on your mental health man.. the days leading up to nak tunggu missed period tu..annoyingnyaaaa. And then negative. Negative, negative negative. Tangan pulak gatal asyik asyik nak take test padahal lama lagi nak tunggu missed period tu. Sampai rasa macam dah tawakkal maybe takde rezeki. Symptoms semua sama macam nak period except missed period and implantation bleeding. And tu pun kadang kadang missed period sebab stress or tak teratur. I WISH theres a definite symptom that indicates youre pregnant before taking a test. The false hope is really what pisses me off. Like at this point, im not even sad but more upset. But as always, Allah yang menentukan segalanya so who am i to be questioning and complaining so much. But at the same time im like whyyyyyy not meee. Whyyy not nowww 😭😭😭 but whokeva yeh. Life is worth living either way isnt it? Atleast thats what i tell myself to ease myself haha. Anyways, i came across this on facebook and it sort of helped in a way. I did lost someone so close to my heart a year ago and basically who raised me after my parents got divorced when i was 3 y/o. His death really changed my whole life and maybe, just maybe, my kid is spending time with him 🥹. Okay sorry for the rant haha. Just needed a space. Abundance of prayers to all the mommas trying to conceive. May our prayers be heard and answered by Allah SWT whenever He knows best. Amin.

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I know this can be devastating…but we can only let go and let god, and maybe you can try divert your mind/hati on things that make you happy, and things that you already have, I mean we can only be grateful on things we already have, and I faham kadang mmg susah nak berdamai dengan takdir esp on things that we really want but we clearly live on God’s timing as much as we want things to be on our own timeline tapi tu la we don’t even know how our life would be with kids later on…we might as well enjoy what we have now. Takpalah kita doa banyak2 so that Allah gives us the keredhaan and ikhlaskan hati kita. I know easier said than done tapi redha itu sangat mahal and I believe each one of us has other precious things that can be thankful for right now, insyaAllah, Allah is great, the best planner of all and all is in His timing, he surely knows what we need more than us. May we be happy with what God bestows onto us regardless, moga kita redha ikhlas and may we always have reasons to look on other blessings too amin ya rab

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My sister dulu mcm u jugak, ttc bertahun2, usaha mcm2 tapi tak jalan, dia selalu persoalkan knp tuhan tak bagi lagi dia rezeki anak while adik2 dia dah dapat 2 3 anak dah. dia terlalu berharapkan sgt mcm u skrg ni until finally after 8years dia betul2 redha dgn ketentuan tuhan, dia taknak letak harapan tinggi lagi, just buat amal ibadah je and bersykur dgn apa yg dia ada skrg, loving husband, caring family, financial stable. bila mana dia redha je, tuhan terus hadirkan baby dalam perut dia. now her baby boy dah turns 1 year old. Nasihat sy, jgn terlalu bersedih atau terlalu berharap. usaha dan doa tu boleh, tapi jgn pressure diri tu sampai makan diri and ur mental health. just berserah je dgn Allah. dia akan bagi whenever u truly ready.

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