Do you think giving kids sweets as a reward kung magStop sila mag-tantrum is an effective way to discipline them? Or does it count as spoiling them?

I do give rewards, pero not until na makita ko talagang nagbehave na sya, so may delay ang pagbigay ko, like for example bago sya matulog. And first, sasabihin ko, im happy na nagbehave sya, nagobey kaay Mama that's why Im giving it to him. Pero hindi pa nya iyon kakain, syempre sasabihin ko tomrow pa pwede kainin kase sweets un. Para the next day, behave pa rin. Then, ipaintindi rin na why you are correcting him is bcoz you want him to grow to become a good man, and you love him.