My spouse is a really good dad, but I think he doesn't love me anymore. He always prioritizes the kids and is kind to them, but when it comes to me, he's rude and short-tempered. I've tried talking to him about it but he just told me I was being needy and demanding. Am I being needy? What should I do?

Did you ask him why did he say that he is needy and demanding? There should be a basis on why he said that. Also, try to check if there were instances from before that lead him to act that way--or has he been acting that way ever since? I suggest that you try to sit down and talk to him about this again (on a time that is okay for him, meaning he is not grumpy or in a bad mood) then tell him what you have observed and feel. There must be a reason for it.