some months back i found out that my husband cheated on me. he told me it was a one time mistake, but i just found out he is continuing with the same woman. i want to leave with my kids, but i realized i also love him a lot. what should i do

if he said he wouldn't do it and if he is still with the same woman, i feel it is time for you to take a stand. this surely is no one time affair, but a relationship. so you need to ask him what is it that he wants? does he think he can continue with the marriage as if all is fine, and also continue a relationship with the other woman at the same time? lay down some ground rules and if he really is not ready to leave her, please take a call and move out. maybe you leaving for some time will give you both a better look at where your marriage stands and how you want to go ahead with it.