Falling out

Sino po d2 na fa fall out of love with their hubby? We have 2 kids and I'm on my way with my 3rd baby...I'm 6 months pregnant..We've been married since 2017. Yes, we had fights and arguments before due to his attitude towards me and to my mom. The way he treated me before, it was like hell. But it wasn't physical, but emotional and psychological abuse as well. We almost broke up before coz my my mom told me so. But I chose to save our marriage bcoz I don't want a broken family. I can't afford to see my kids grow without a father. Now, my mom and my brothers made up a decision to have him live separately, not in the same roof to prevent arguments and fights. Bcoz he and my mom had a huge fight kaya pinalayas sya d2 sa bahay namin. The way he treated my mom parang walang respeto. So he rent an apartment next to our brgy. But we still communicate juz like before, visits the kids whenever he has time, too busy with his job. But I told him to support our kids financially bcoz it's his responsiblity. Ganito po set up namin, mahirap tlaga Lalo na ako lang at si Mama Ang nandito nag aalaga sa mga bata. Buntis pa namn ako. Kaya ngayon narrmdaman ko parang na fa fall out of love na ako kc one time ng ask ako sa kanya na magppasama ako sa hosp. mgpa prenatal check up with my OB, pero ngdalawang isip pa sya kc may work daw sya that time. That happened twice pala..Pwede namn mg undertime. Kc Asawa nya ako dapat ako yong mas priority nya kesa sa work nya. Hinde nmn wholeday yon. At madami pa na nangyare na parang Hinde ako sa priority list nya. Ngwwork nga sya para ma sustain nya needs Ng mga bata. Pero as a partner, meron din akong needs not juz financially. I guess naiintindihan nyo po ano yon. Hinde maiwasa naiisip ko yong pinagddaraanan ko sa past with him when he was still living here with us. Ano po advise nyo tungkol d2, mga momshie na may pinagddaraanan din tulad ko. Pa help naman po. Thanks po sa sasagot.❤️

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mas maganda po na bumukod kayo kasi katulad niyan, nag away ang mama mo and asawa mo so ngayon nahiwalay ka sa asawa mo kahit di naman kayo ang direktang nag away. i understand of course na mama mo yun,and a big part of you will always say na kampihan mo mama mo, pero kasi may asawa ka na. may sarili na kayong buhay. and parang di okay na nagkaganyan set up niyo dahil sa away nila. kung na ffall out ka kasi talaga, i dont think na maiisip mo pa mag post kasi kung di mo na mahal, eh wala ka nang pakielam. pero since it still bothers you, baka naiinis ka lang sa sitwasyon, and not na ffall out. pero syempre, ikaw lang nakakaalam niyan. wag mong hayaan na magka sira kayo dahil sa away nila kasi baka dumating ang panahon na magsisi ka, at ihold mo pa yan against sa mom mo.

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