Falling out

Sino po d2 na fa fall out of love with their hubby? We have 2 kids and I'm on my way with my 3rd baby...I'm 6 months pregnant..We've been married since 2017. Yes, we had fights and arguments before due to his attitude towards me and to my mom. The way he treated me before, it was like hell. But it wasn't physical, but emotional and psychological abuse as well. We almost broke up before coz my my mom told me so. But I chose to save our marriage bcoz I don't want a broken family. I can't afford to see my kids grow without a father. Now, my mom and my brothers made up a decision to have him live separately, not in the same roof to prevent arguments and fights. Bcoz he and my mom had a huge fight kaya pinalayas sya d2 sa bahay namin. The way he treated my mom parang walang respeto. So he rent an apartment next to our brgy. But we still communicate juz like before, visits the kids whenever he has time, too busy with his job. But I told him to support our kids financially bcoz it's his responsiblity. Ganito po set up namin, mahirap tlaga Lalo na ako lang at si Mama Ang nandito nag aalaga sa mga bata. Buntis pa namn ako. Kaya ngayon narrmdaman ko parang na fa fall out of love na ako kc one time ng ask ako sa kanya na magppasama ako sa hosp. mgpa prenatal check up with my OB, pero ngdalawang isip pa sya kc may work daw sya that time. That happened twice pala..Pwede namn mg undertime. Kc Asawa nya ako dapat ako yong mas priority nya kesa sa work nya. Hinde nmn wholeday yon. At madami pa na nangyare na parang Hinde ako sa priority list nya. Ngwwork nga sya para ma sustain nya needs Ng mga bata. Pero as a partner, meron din akong needs not juz financially. I guess naiintindihan nyo po ano yon. Hinde maiwasa naiisip ko yong pinagddaraanan ko sa past with him when he was still living here with us. Ano po advise nyo tungkol d2, mga momshie na may pinagddaraanan din tulad ko. Pa help naman po. Thanks po sa sasagot.❤️

7 Replies
undefined profile icon
Magsulat ng reply

Hi momsh.. Base po sa kwento mo, hindi talaga mgkasundo ang family mo ska asawa mo. May questions lang po ako momsh. Naisip nyo po ba na bumukod kayo ng asawa at mga anak mo? And bakit po jan ka po ngsstay sa bahay ng mama mo? If kaya nyo naman po bumukod, much better po yun para makapagsimula kayo as kayo ng asawa mo at mga anak mo. Correct me if i'm wrong po, parang mas sinusunod mo po kase mama mo kesa sa asawa mo. I understand po yung needs mo bilang isang asawa, pero do you think naiintindihan mo rin ba asawa mo? I mean, what do you think po is the reason kung bakit ganun ang attitude ni hubby mo towards your mom? Wag po sana kayo maoffend momsh, its just my opinion po and sna malaman mo din yung side ng asawa mo kung bakit ganun sya. But still, sana maging okay po kayo ng asawa mo. Wag ka po sana magtampo kung my time hindi ka nya nasasamahan s check up mo. Marami din po n momshies na hindi rin nssamahan ng asawa/partner nla and its okay. You can ask some other time po cguro.

Magbasa pa