Should I feel bad if husband doesn't show me his payslips? He used to show it to me when it was both of us who were working. Since I became pregnant and SAHM, I never get to see it again. I know he lies like he only received this amount when in fact I know it even increased. He's so secretive when it comes to his own money. Not that I want to ask for everything. I just believe that it should be part of our being open to each other since we're partners.

Hey, You know, my husband never shares any of his financial details with me, forget about the payslip. But at the same time, he doesn't even hide things if I ask him. Just that I never show interest in how much exactly is getting deposited in his account as a salary or what all things he does with it apart from what I know. But, yes, in your case, I would have completely understood your husband being private about his salary and not even sharing details about it even with you if he had been doing this eversincme you got married. Since, he was earlier sharing it with you, I wonder why he has changed now. I think you need to talk to him. But do not conclude anything till you have spoken to him. You never know, he has already started saving for the baby and do not want to tell you also. Some men behave like this. They are secretive about things. My father, though, fulfilled all demands and little things whatever my mother said, but he was little secretive about his money. And that was fine, because my mother never had to cringe for things as he looked after all his needs always gave her money even before she asked. Well! Any which way, talk to your husband and speak all that is in your heart, and see what he has to say.