Should I feel bad if husband doesn't show me his payslips? He used to show it to me when it was both of us who were working. Since I became pregnant and SAHM, I never get to see it again. I know he lies like he only received this amount when in fact I know it even increased. He's so secretive when it comes to his own money. Not that I want to ask for everything. I just believe that it should be part of our being open to each other since we're partners.