STRESS SA FAMILY

Share ko lang po yung nararamdaman ko these days mga momsh. As much as possible diba iwasan yung stress kasi masama para kay baby pero ang hirap iwasan kung yung nag'bibigay ng stress sayo ay yung sarili mong pamilya. Nakakainis kasi eh tas wala akong choice, di ko nman kayang talikuran kasi nga diba pamilya. Masama naba akong anak kung hindi ko mabigyan muna ng financial assistance yung mother ko as of now? Need din kasi namin kasi para sa pag'labas ni baby (di malaki yung income namin ng partner ko). Nakakasama ng loob kasi ako yung bunso sa pamilya (I have 2 sisters 10 years ang age gap namin) tas parang ako yung na'oobliga. Sabi ko sa kanila ngayon lang to kasi nga preggy ako pero di sila nakakaintindi. Kahit ano pinag'sasabi nila against me like pera lang dawhinihingi stress nadaw agad ako. Haaays. Worst is sinabihan ako ng mother ko na hindi xa aattend sa wedding namin ng partner ko. Ngayon ko lang namn need yung presence nila tas bakit ganyan pa sila? BTW guys, since 18 years old (now I'm 28) I'm earning my own money kasi di kami mayaman. Ginapang ko yung college ko para mka'tapos ako (working student). Dito ako na'stress kasi I never complained to them sa mga pinagdaanan ko. Pero bakit sila panay reklamo sa mga nabibigay ko?. Ang hirap kasi kahit bali baliktarin ko yung mundo, sila parin yung pamilya sila din mismo nang'dodown sayo.?

Mommy BB

Boyd's Momma

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Try to voice out your side when you know its right. Since you don't live with them in one roof already, let them realize your rights which you mentioned while confronting to them. Tell everything, all of your hardships and struggles while being a student before (did they help you whenever you were in need before?) Tell them if something happens to their grandchild, who's still in your womb, it will live in their conscience forever. Or try telling that you are not the only child they have, they have other children too whom they can lean on. And to conclude your statement, put them into realization esp.your mother that she, too, is a mother, she must understand your situation since you are saving for the future of your unborn child.

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Mommy RR

Supermommy of a lovely and brave girly baby

6y ago

Siguro may gusto ipahiwatig ang mother mo. Try ml rin magtampo minsan sa kanya iyakan mo sa harapan nila. And when your baby comes soon, give them some words that they will never forget.

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