hi, SAHM does your mil ask you for money every month? she ask me for money every month when hubby gets pay. Hubby bring home merely $1.5k.. We are staying with ILs. She never fails to ask me to give money go my FIL every single month even when I told her that we are paying bank loan of $300 every month. Plus Minus expenses, we really have nothing left. So my parents always help me out by giving me money and all. But my parents never ask money from me before even though they help us every month. I feel that it is unfair if I give my ILs but not my parents.. What do you think?

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I feel you should be able to survive yourselves first before you give your in-laws. Yes, it's not nice to not give anything but what's the point giving and giving when you barely have anything to keep yourself going? Just give them a bigger red packet when it's their birthday/festivities. They should understand your situation and not use you and their son as an atm y'know

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Home Random Talk sahm does your mil ask money every month ask money every month when hubby gets pay hubby bring home merely 15k staying with ils never fails ask give money go fil every single month when i told that paying bank loan 300 every month plus minus expenses really have nothing left parents always help out giving money but parents never ask money from before though help every month i feel that unfair if i give ils but not parents what think