hi, SAHM does your mil ask you for money every month? she ask me for money every month when hubby gets pay. Hubby bring home merely $1.5k.. We are staying with ILs. She never fails to ask me to give money go my FIL every single month even when I told her that we are paying bank loan of $300 every month. Plus Minus expenses, we really have nothing left. So my parents always help me out by giving me money and all. But my parents never ask money from me before even though they help us every month. I feel that it is unfair if I give my ILs but not my parents.. What do you think?

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urm ask your hubby to explain to them the situation. its not like you both dowan to give, its just its just enough to survive. as DIL, we can't argue much haha that sucks but oh wells. but since you both cant give money, maybe buy groceries or bring them out to eat once in a while. bc at the end of the day, yall staying with them. my mum and MIL dont ask for money, but we agreed to bring them out once in a while when we have extra money. esp my side have 7 ppl total and im the eldest to 6 schooling kids, so i explained to my mum we're unable to help every month but will try when we can.

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