hi, SAHM does your mil ask you for money every month? she ask me for money every month when hubby gets pay. Hubby bring home merely $1.5k.. We are staying with ILs. She never fails to ask me to give money go my FIL every single month even when I told her that we are paying bank loan of $300 every month. Plus Minus expenses, we really have nothing left. So my parents always help me out by giving me money and all. But my parents never ask money from me before even though they help us every month. I feel that it is unfair if I give my ILs but not my parents.. What do you think?

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even my own mother chase me for money that 1 time when i was late in giving her. 1 time out of so many years. let alone in laws. i feel it’s right to give them some $ since staying in their house. i don’t stay with my mother. i still have to give her $ every month. as for how much to give, your husband can discuss with them and be frank what is his limit. hope they will understand. next time when i’m old, i hope i won’t be useless and ask my kids for money. i will keep myself alive with my own savings.

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