HI,
I think if a relationship is not going on fine with a couple then it may be the worst tie to plan a baby. Because, then momentarily all seems fine, but what actually happens is, that the relationship between husband and wife was already not fine and they got an innocent one into their lives, who will also have to suffer because of them.
Erin, I think, you need to find the cause of your problem and instead of thinking that one more addition in the family will solve the problem, you sit with your husband and discuss the issue. Think where you both are going wrong and what is affecting your marriage and then try to work upon that issue.
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