Other people say baby can help save failing relationship. But I dun get it. To me is got baby become worth. As can say my husband doesn't like kids. Always like to throw to his mum side to take care. But I doesn't like his mum side to take care. Cos they will keep carry the baby . can carry up to 2/3 hr if baby dun sleep. I know elderly like baby. But this is too much. And I have no right to say them. If I say them. My husband will quarrel with me. I'm alone taking care baby. But when going back my mother in law house. My lo come back doesn't want to sleep. Keep crying non stop. Just wan to be carried. I'm really tired of this. And husband saw and he doesn't want to care.

It's never true that having a baby can save failing relationship. U need to find out the root cause of your failing relationship, is it because lack of communication, sexual problems, in laws issue, etc. Seek professional counsellor help if need to. U can explain to your mil nicely saying that she can put baby on playmat, baby seat (u can get it for her to put at her place) though carrying her is a way of bonding. U seek ur hubby's understanding that u are not saying them but he can see that baby will cries in d night. U can slowly trained baby to sit wit u, having some books & toys to let lo play. Ur hubby is not dun want to care, maybe he dunno how to handle it. U can try asking him to help u like bring some water, make milk or spend time bonding wit lo tgt. Hope it helps & Jia u, Mommy!