Other people say baby can help save failing relationship. But I dun get it. To me is got baby become worth. As can say my husband doesn't like kids. Always like to throw to his mum side to take care. But I doesn't like his mum side to take care. Cos they will keep carry the baby . can carry up to 2/3 hr if baby dun sleep. I know elderly like baby. But this is too much. And I have no right to say them. If I say them. My husband will quarrel with me. I'm alone taking care baby. But when going back my mother in law house. My lo come back doesn't want to sleep. Keep crying non stop. Just wan to be carried. I'm really tired of this. And husband saw and he doesn't want to care.

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Actually I think baby usually ‘worsens’ the relationship in a way that there will be more conflicts, disagreements and dissatisfaction for both parties. I never thought that baby can ‘save’ a relationship. Having a baby would add on to extra stress and burden as well if your relationship and finance are yet stabilised. It’s silly to think it ‘saves’ marriages.

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