Is it normal for White married man to still go in a girly bar for a drinks?

Hi! I’m in no position to advise but all I can say is if your intention is just to relax and get some drinks, that’s fine in my view.

actually not just white man..white or black some still go to the bar n have a drink...im lucky that my husb doesnt drink

Yes it's common to just go for a drink and chill after a long day at work.

In my opinion, if just go for a drinks then it is ok. but not too often

I think it’s common for all men not just white men!

If you’re there to chill and relax, why not?

Yes it is very common for all men :)

Sure, it's just to chill right?