Need some tips or advice... My husband is a wonderful father, he is not the patient kind but when my dau arrived in this world, he improved on his patience towards her. However, the dating feeling that I used to have even though I am married for 8 yrs diminished when my daughter was born. He is not willing to go abroad without my daughter even though my daughter will be in good hands. He wants to see her everyday. I really tot men would like a break too.... So my question is, I know I can't get to him to reignite our spark we had so I need to change my thinking since I knw I can't change his. How do I make myself feel better?

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I find it so sweet that husband is so into the daughter. That means he is also very into the marriage. Most dads will want time out or me time . Like my husband told me before 4yo he doesn't see a point to bring our gal overseas with us as she can't remember anyway. I told him that's not the point . You should be happy your husband is one of the rare breed :) That said perhaps have an open talk with Him that you two need me time alone . Do a staycation or make it a point to go on a date every week and I am sure he will welcome the break from parenting duties for a day

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5y ago

He enjoys time wif our dau more than me. 😁 He was even telling me tht he tot he will be so heart broken once our daughter grows up... 😂 I feel I think like a man more than a mom... thts interesting.