Need some tips or advice... My husband is a wonderful father, he is not the patient kind but when my dau arrived in this world, he improved on his patience towards her. However, the dating feeling that I used to have even though I am married for 8 yrs diminished when my daughter was born. He is not willing to go abroad without my daughter even though my daughter will be in good hands. He wants to see her everyday. I really tot men would like a break too.... So my question is, I know I can't get to him to reignite our spark we had so I need to change my thinking since I knw I can't change his. How do I make myself feel better?

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I too think it's great thing he has great involvement with his daughter, but also cannot underestimate the importance of having one to one time with our spouse. How old is your daughter? Probably can wait till she went to school, then use the time to have some couple dates. Or when she is sleeping, can rekindle the intimacy in bedroom?

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5y ago

Tried but I felt sometimes like lack of novelty if I do it every time. 😂