Need some tips or advice... My husband is a wonderful father, he is not the patient kind but when my dau arrived in this world, he improved on his patience towards her. However, the dating feeling that I used to have even though I am married for 8 yrs diminished when my daughter was born. He is not willing to go abroad without my daughter even though my daughter will be in good hands. He wants to see her everyday. I really tot men would like a break too.... So my question is, I know I can't get to him to reignite our spark we had so I need to change my thinking since I knw I can't change his. How do I make myself feel better?

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i think it is very sweet that he is so involved. there are so many moms who feel sad that the father is not involved with the baby and is always looking to spend time on his own. i suggest give him time and let him enjoy these early moments as a new dad. he definitely loves you and i am sure the spark you are missing will come back. don't give up, keep doing the small things you do with him, such as watching a movie together, having a quiet date night at home if not outside, cuddling up and so on. keep telling him you love him and he is the one you love being around :)

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