My son's the first "apo" and first "pamangkin", obviously they (my family) tend to spoil him and sometimes it really gets on my nerves. is there ways on how to unspoil your child?

my son is also the first apo. from our side and from my hubby's side. and yes spoiling him its very irritating. what i did, i talked to my son. i told him that i am the boss and do not listen to others even his grandparents / aunts. and my son followed that rule. he is always asking me first evrytime they will do something that he think its not right for me. hehe

I talked to the whole family since my kids are the first grandkids. My in-laws would ask first for our approval on everything for the kids. They also follow our house rules even if my kids stay on my in-laws house. Less worry on my part cause I know they ain't gonna be spoiled.

I like that. thanks.