My in law invited us over for dinner. But she only cooked curry and white rice! My 5 years old boy don't take spicy food so I fed him before visiting my in law. However , my in law were not happy , saying that my boy don't appreciate her cooking (curry)! I was dumbfounded !

yes agree with what other mummies share,i let my lo try to eat the curry with plain rice,when lo cry if it too spicy let ur hub take the role to tell your mil that ur lo is still small to eat spicy , if ur lo knows how to talk you can try ask your lo if is too spicy.Let your inlaw hear from your lo that its spicy will be much more better