Mummies pls advice me. I am relli veri depressed. I had a shortgun marriage. Kena pregnant before I marry hubby. I was thinking to abort or maybe have the baby but without him, but he convince me to get married cause he both love me and the baby. But the other day I was on his Facebook and I saw his message to his old fren where he say that I was pregnant, so marry me, bo pian. He say he actually want to oredi break up, but I got pregnant. So he just do the right thing. I am very hurt, because I never force him and he was the one kept bugging me to get married. I feel like just throw the divorce paper on his face. Any advice?

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it takes lots of courage and decision making before a man decides to take up the responsibilities in a marriage and a kid. some will not even bother and ask you to abort without second thoughts. think for your child and give him the benefit of doubt. its normal for one to rant sometimes, without thinking, in this case, without you reading his messages which is invading his privacy. it takes two person to make a marriage work, shotgun or not it really doesn't matter because it is such a norm these days.

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Home Random Talk mummies pls advice i relli veri depressed i had shortgun marriage kena pregnant before i marry hubby i was thinking abort maybe have baby but without him but convince get married cause both love baby but other day i was facebook i saw message old fren where say that i was pregnant marry bo pian he say actually want oredi break but i got pregnant so right thing i very hurt because i never force him was kept bugging get married i feel like throw