I feel you. kasi MIL ko rin gusto niya siya bumili ng mga gamit ni baby. But I told her politely na wag niya ako pigilan bumili kasi this is my happiness as FTM, but she kept on insisting, hinayaan ko lang bili parin ako ng bili, i heard comments and saw few annoyances expressions on her, deadma smile lang ako. If gusto niya bumili okay lang sakin, but she can't stop me from buying too 🤣
Your baby is yours. Not your SILs.
No one else get to decide for your baby but you.
Bumili ka ng kung anong gusto mo, wala na rin siyang magagawa lalo kung andyan na mga gamit.
Tell her what your plan BUT! You don't need your MILs approval on your decision nor her understanding about it. What's important is you let her know.
And everything that happens with you in that house with your ILs, you let your husband know, para he can understand you.
Once baby is out you better leave with you baby. Kasi on my experience, staying with MIL with my baby got things heated. Una pa lang nakikilaman na rin si MIL samin pero napag papasensyahan ko pa, pero nung lumabas baby OMG stress! Know it all kasi. Mahihirapan ka maging mother sa anak mo kapag may nagmamando sa kung ano dapat mong gawin.
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