Any mummies having difficulty in reaching to yr hubby by phone call or sms or any kind of communication means? My hubby since our dating time till marriage till we got our first child he still doing the same thing. He will either block my calls,sms and wattsapp wen he secretly doing something behind my back. I've told him ample times to juz answer once or juz sms back to at least response to my kol coz in case of any emergencies it will be too late for him to know. I understand he can be bz but I told him to not block my call. I did not disturb him coz I always give him time on his own. N wen I call him only wen there's important thing to talk. How I know he block my call was wen everytime I tried to reach him suddenly he put cut the line and my next call to him it's already VoiceMail. He's already a husband.. yup must he still not know the importance of a call from his wife. I did not call him every day By the way.

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It takes trust between two. Maybe you can tell your husband the way i already explained to my husband about letting me know where he goes to and with who? In case of emergency at home with regards to the kids, i need to inform him. If he were to block my call and ignore me, what if something bad was really happening at home? Moreover we have elderly people at home. Things will literally happen ANY minute. So he can't be ignoring your calls. Secondly, the reason WHY i need to know where you are and who you are with. In case you aren't home the whole night, you are out of reach, Something happened to you? Road Accident? At least i can call someone who you would be with. To at least know you are safe and sound.. Sit down and slowly talk to your husband about this issue.

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9y ago

thank u jorelle n all for the advices. I was feelg very angry annoyed sad n lost at that time. the day my boy 8 mth was almost out of breathe. his lips was already blue n I was alone at that time. luckily I managed to get on my mind again n called my best frd who helped me. my hubby I dunno wat to say never change his behaviour. n it's for his own selfishness n his own njoymnt he can do this to us his new family. he only called me thrice the next day but I'm too sad n annoyed to answer him. sum