Same experience momsh, I understand your feelings. Ganyan na ganyan din ako/kami noon, as in wapakels, no initiative to give financial support, etc.
Ganyan din ang mindset ko noong una eh, parang "bakit ako magssend ng picture eh simula palang tinakwil mo na sya?" pero as time goes by, napaisip din ako na may karapatan parin naman sya na makita si baby, kahit sa picture lang. In the end, nag send ako ng picture ni baby sa kanya, and guess what, gumaan yung loob ko nung ginawa ko yun dahil sa ginawa kong yun mas naging mature ako sa pananaw ko sa buhay, and sa mga decisions ko regarding my baby.
I'm a single mom, almost 2years na, still no financial support coming from the sperm donor, wala din pakumusta, pero that's okay.
Siguro for me, give him a picture of your baby, yun lang ang ibigay mo sa kanya, after that you can stop communicating with him na unless sya unang makipag communicate sayo regarding the baby.
This is just my advice mommy, pero at the end of the day it's still your decision.
Listen to your heart and mind, kung saan ka mas mapapanatag doon ka. 😊
Fighting! ❤