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Hi momsh! medyo mataas po ito but please bare to listen with my words. Nalilito lang po talaga ako whether makikipag cooperate ba ako sa gusto ng partner ko. Ganito po kasi yun, LDR na kami ngayon since umuwi na ako sa amin after ko mag resign sa work to protect myself and my baby from the virus since yung hometown ko po naman is covid free (thanks God & I'm currently 8 months pregnant) tapos yung gusto ng father ng baby ko mag send daw ako ng pic. ni baby pgnanganak na ako. Which I think very unfair kung susundin ko nalang lahat ng gusto nya kasi in the first place sinabihan nya ako dati na 'magkaka problema sya (referring about my baby), ipalaglag nlng daw namin (which is ayoko talaga gawin) and then hindi talaga ako nag hihingi sa kanya ng financial support all throughout my pregnancy even now na wla na akong work, kasi sabi nya pa wag ko daw sya e pressure in terms of financial kaya pinabayaan ko kasi dapat kusa syang magbibigay if talagang concern sya s amin ni baby. I sacrifice everything pra kay baby tapos wla man syang ka effort effort para sa amin ni baby. I know aabot sa point na gusto nya to makita pero nalilito pa po talaga ako if I just go with what he wants for the sake s bata or forget that he exist. Right now, I am trying to avoid any means of communication from him.

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Same experience momsh, I understand your feelings. Ganyan na ganyan din ako/kami noon, as in wapakels, no initiative to give financial support, etc. Ganyan din ang mindset ko noong una eh, parang "bakit ako magssend ng picture eh simula palang tinakwil mo na sya?" pero as time goes by, napaisip din ako na may karapatan parin naman sya na makita si baby, kahit sa picture lang. In the end, nag send ako ng picture ni baby sa kanya, and guess what, gumaan yung loob ko nung ginawa ko yun dahil sa ginawa kong yun mas naging mature ako sa pananaw ko sa buhay, and sa mga decisions ko regarding my baby. I'm a single mom, almost 2years na, still no financial support coming from the sperm donor, wala din pakumusta, pero that's okay. Siguro for me, give him a picture of your baby, yun lang ang ibigay mo sa kanya, after that you can stop communicating with him na unless sya unang makipag communicate sayo regarding the baby. This is just my advice mommy, pero at the end of the day it's still your decision. Listen to your heart and mind, kung saan ka mas mapapanatag doon ka. 😊 Fighting! ❤

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