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Any mom felt that u are being neglected by ur hubby? As he is busy with work then he is tired from work that he dont bother asking you to rest once he reached home. i feel he dont think that i am also tired with the baby and household chores. Or is it just me??

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Yup same here. I am on maternity leave and my hubby thinks that I’m having holidays. He has never once asked if I am tired, furthermore I didn’t hire a confinement lady just to cut down his expense. Hurts me a lot everytime when I say that I’m tired, he will tell me he is tired from work too. What more can I say.

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5y ago

My own mother actually told me that i shd be letting my hubs rest more cuz he’s tired from work and i kinda told her off saying that caring for bb full time at home is more tiring (no breaks, cant slack off, no long lunches etc). I mean i get where she’s coming from and should be grateful that it isnt my MIL who’s saying this but think the older (aka more traditional) generation needs to know that parenting is an equal two persons job. Luckily my hubs has always been willing to step up even after work, to me it’s also his chance to bond with baby!