Mil requested to stay with us. She love our baby very much and she love his son also. She said she can help us taking care baby. Help us doing some house chores and cook meal for us. I really appreciated but I found that my role has been taken as she love both of them too much. My husband will take her mom as first place too as she really love him so much since young. Should I reject?? As I foresee it may have family issue in future. How should i reject? what should i do so that won't be the bad person to make the decision and won't spoilt the relation between my hubby and mil?

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I will prefer not to stay with in laws given a choice. The more people living under one roof, the more conflicts. But you gotta agree that, with kids around its good to have another adult around at home. You could have some time off with your hubby. Or even have some private time to yourself. Sometimes when u are in a rush she might be able to pick your child up. Like chinese say 家有一老如有一宝. Having an elderly at home is like having a treasure. I also find kids who socialise more with elderly more polite and patient(maybe because of the constant nagging).

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Home Random Talk mil requested stay with she love baby very much love son she said help taking care baby help doing some house chores cook meal i really appreciated but i found that role has been taken love both them too much my husband take mom first place too really love him much since young should i reject as i foresee have family issue in future how should i reject what should i that wont bad person make decision wont spoilt relation between hubby mil