Mil requested to stay with us. She love our baby very much and she love his son also. She said she can help us taking care baby. Help us doing some house chores and cook meal for us. I really appreciated but I found that my role has been taken as she love both of them too much. My husband will take her mom as first place too as she really love him so much since young. Should I reject?? As I foresee it may have family issue in future. How should i reject? what should i do so that won't be the bad person to make the decision and won't spoilt the relation between my hubby and mil?

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Yes, you have to deal with this issue together with your husband. Sit down and talk about the things you observe since your mother in law has moved in to your house. Explain to your husband the pros and cons but don't forget to show that you are grateful for all the help his mom has given. Just let him realize that you need to grow and make decisions as a family and that you want to stand on your own and not be dependent on anyone else.

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Home Random Talk mil requested stay with she love baby very much love son she said help taking care baby help doing some house chores cook meal i really appreciated but i found that role has been taken love both them too much my husband take mom first place too really love him much since young should i reject as i foresee have family issue in future how should i reject what should i that wont bad person make decision wont spoilt relation between hubby mil